We all know that nobody is born as a good writer. It is a constant process of becoming. And I do believe that the difference between good and bad writers it’s not about the skill or gift. It’s not even about the number of written or published pieces. The key word we are looking for is persistence.
Good writer is writing – no matter how many times he fails or writes crappy work. He is there showing up every day, practicing and trying to improve himself. Not only writing, but everything that goes with writing.
In that sense, I think that biggest secret every good writer knows and we often forget is how good writer treats his bad writing. First, he takes time to write, erase, rewrite, edit, tailor every word to what’s need to be written. And how does he know what’s need to be written? He is attuned to his inner-self and follows the voice that drives him to write. Once you master to recognize that voice, you will know if what you wrote is good or bad.
The second essential part here is also his relationship to criticism. He is persistent, not afraid to try, to let his work be judged by the public eye. He knows how to tame his ego and accept constructive advice that can only help him become better and improve his writing.
Good writer is not writing because there is nothing else to do or simply he likes recreationally to scribble. There is ingrained need in him that he has to tell something, his story needs to be written. It’s not a job. It’s not a work. It’s almost like breathing.
Many writers do achieve certain level in their skill and they are determined that it’s all there is. They believe, by default anything they write is good and not subjected to alteration. In reality, what happens is that fear of failure is greater than desire to produce really good piece which requires additional effort and time. And frankly, often their writing is not even close to be good as they think.
Being defensive about the quality of your work is not going to make you a good writer.
So what can you do?
You can make a decision to be different and take responsibility for your writing. Go and write that extra page that many aspiring writers are not prepared to. Put an extra hour and improve that paragraph that has been bugging you. Be brave and send your poem to that journal you’ve been reluctant to do for so many months.
That’s how you become a better writer: with stillness to listen and eagerness to change. Are you ready?
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Yes, there is always something to learn and it is a road to leading a fulfilling life 🙂
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Reblogged this on apboustead.
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Very constructive, insightful article on writing, Maja… Excellent! 🙂
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Thanks Jonathan! 🙂
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Interesting post, and as I am persistence personified, I shall probably end up quite brilliant…
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Of course, we’ll all cheer for you! 🙂
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Hello buddy,
Wow! I am pushed to say here that you are expert, and this post is extraordinary awesome. You bolstered my spirit, geared me up to fly but not to walk anymore.
Thanks
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Thank you for reading, I’m glad you found value in it 🙂
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I like this post because you didn’t say anything we already didn’t know, and yet, we need to be reminded and you did it in a gentle way. Agree, agree, agree 🙂
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I agree, usually some obvious truths are the biggest secrets we forget in life. 🙂
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Reblogged this on sailorpoet and commented:
Show up and don’t fear criticism. Then show up some more. Excellent article.
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Thanks for share!
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This post will be such a great inspiration to aspiring writers. Thanks for the perfectly entailed words which clearly shows the importance of persistence in writing. Good job.
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Thank you, your support is much appreciated 🙂
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Great post. I find this v helpful from the Dilbert Blog of all places: http://dilbertblog.typepad.com/the_dilbert_blog/2007/06/the_day_you_bec.html
Also, the attitude to writing as a craft rather than some kind of art that has to only happen when the divine muse visits really helps.
Thanks for reaching out. Looking forward to reading more!
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Thanks, I’m glad you liked the post 🙂
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Another excellent insightful and thought provoking post Maja. You mention all the key elements of writing skill here Maja and give a gentle reminder that the key to writing success is hard work and persistence.
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Thanks Davy, glad you find it useful 🙂
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Reblogged this on Write Through It and commented:
This is good. No short-cuts. I’d add that growing as a writer means becoming more observant and more attentive to the world around you — and learning how to translate all that into words.
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Thanks Susanna, I agree with you – somehow with desire to become better writer we also gain awareness about our environment, I agree 🙂
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Thank you for this reminder. If it first you don’t succeed, try again; but try again even the more when you do! Because honestly, the real successes don’t come from one momentous push, but little steps every day.
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That’s true Belle, thanks for reading 🙂
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Good job.
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Thanks 🙂
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Staying true to your inner voice. Yours comes through in your writing. I’ve declared myself a writer, I need to write my book this year. I said I would read less, but I still find joy in reading & finding wonderful writers like yourself. All the best.
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Thank you Regine for your lovely words. I think reading is never a wasted time as it also improves our writing. I’m glad you found some encouragement in my post 🙂
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this is what got me blogging. if you want to be a writer, you must write. thank you maja. the inner voice knows the truth
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Thank you for reading 🙂
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So much truth in this.I totally relate.I have so much to say.I have so many drafts waiting to be published.
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You have everything you need to be a good writer. Just keep writing! 🙂
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Thank you so much Maja.Please visit the few posts I have written and tell me what yu think(am a new blogger) 😊
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Will do 🙂
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I find your post very valuable and enlightening. Thank you for the follow and it’s nice to meet you.
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Thanks Eugenia 🙂
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Reblogged this on WILDsound Writing and Film Festival Review.
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Thanks for sharing 🙂
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Great read!
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Thanks!
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Great sentiments! It’s the same as everything… people who put in the work get the rewards, you have to practice and be patient! Best wishes with your writing
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Thank you :)!
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Oh yeah, I think anyone who takes writing seriously knows that the skill and the work is really in the editing. I think it’s freeing to know in a first draft that not everything is going to come out perfectly on first go, and that’s okay, because your future editor self will have to do the hard work of making it all look good.
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts Brandilyn 🙂
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I really like what you said about ‘good writing is not writing because there is nothing else to do or simply he likes recreationally to scribble’. I think I can treat my writing that way sometimes- as something I do for fun. But I need to be the first person to take my writing seriously.
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That’s true Katie 🙂
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